February is the time of year which highlights the deeper side of love, when people get to know more about their partners—or even themselves—through deal breakers and non-negotiables.
Providing their insights, these celebrities turn serious as they elaborate on the must-have and must-not behaviors, values, and other factors that determine whether a person should stay in or leave a relationship.
First on the list is former “PBB Collab 2.0” housemate Eliza Borromeo, who went straight to the point, emphasizing she wouldn’t endure a relationship with a partner who would still communicate with an ex-lover.
For powerhouse singers Jason Dy, Jed Madela, and Nyoy Volante, each shared the different kinds of respect they expect from their partners.
The Prince of Soul, Jason, underscores that he looks closely at a person’s character, particularly in how they treat others, such as service industry workers. For him, it’s a red flag when someone treats waiters, guards, and others poorly but behaves entirely differently toward him.
OPM balladeer Jed also shared that he wouldn’t tolerate disrespect, noting that while a relationship requires many things, respect should always come first. He added that this respect should extend not only to a partner but also to a partner’s loved ones.
Completing the discussion on respect, “Your Face Sounds Familiar” coach Nyoy, affirms that respect is a non-negotiable in a relationship—even before entering one or during the courtship stage.
Jane Oineza and Sofronio Vasquez offer similar thoughts on trust, with Jane explaining that she finds it difficult to move forward in a relationship when transparency and healthy communication are lacking. She also stresses that she does not forgive third parties, saying, “Two players only; ‘pag may dumagdag, hindi na pwede.”
“The Voice USA Season 26” champion Sofronio keeps it simple and straightforward, saying that lying reflects a lack of respect for a partner’s worth.
“Roja” actor Kobie Brown then discloses that a major deal breaker for him is having a partner who does not support his career.
Following through, Maymay Entrata, Esang de Torres, and Kat Galang point to a heartbreaking reality that should never be ignored when deciding whether a relationship is worth saving: abuse—whether verbal, emotional, physical, or otherwise.
For Miggy Jimenez stresses emotional neglect as a warning sign, particularly when a partner is unwilling to adjust or reluctant to listen during highly vulnerable moments.
Like Jane’s point of view, Vina Morales, JM de Guzman, and Bong Gonzales also cite cheating as a crucial must-not in a relationship. “Paano mo masasabi kung mahal ka kung meron palang iba?” Vina asks rhetorically.
Addressing double standards between genders, Robi Domingo believes that couples should sincerely commit to each other, especially before becoming official.
Wrapping up the interview with a brighter aura, another “PBB Collab 2.0” alumna Sofia Pablo says her future partner should match her humor and cheerful personality.
Do their thoughts resonate with you? At the end of the day, deal breakers and non-negotiables all boil down to one thing: being able to feel love and respect simultaneously, allowing both you and your partner to be heard and valued—not just during the month of love, but beyond.